PARENTS OF STUDENTS APPEARING IN CBSE EXAMINATIONS

SIR/MADAM

YOUR SON/DAUGHTER NEEDS YOU NOW.

TODAY I AM ALSO A PARENT OF CLASS 12th STUDENT. I HAVE MY MEMORIES OF CBSE EXAMINATIONS AND THE SUPPORT MY PARENTS GAVE ME IN THAT PERIOD. I OWE MY TOP RANKED SUCCESS TO THEM. I WANT TO SHARE THEM WITH YOU.

1. I ASKED STUDENTS TO BE HERMIT IN STUDY. THE PARENTS HAVE TO NURTURE THE HERMIT.

2. TALK TO YOU SON/DAUGHTER OFTEN.

3. TALK ABOUT HIS/HER PROBLEMS.

4. GIVE HIM/HER MORAL SUPPORT.

5. DONOT GIVE HIM/HER VERY HIGH TARGETS.

6. TAKE PROPER CARE OF HIS/HER DIET.

7. THE CHILD SHOULD NOT FEEL ALONE. SOMEONE SHOULD BE AT HOME EVERYTIME.

8. DO NOT ASK HIM TO OPEN THE DOOR, ANSWER A TELEPHONE CALL etc.

9. MONITOR HIS CELL PHONE TALKS.

10. KEEP REGULAR CHECK ON THIS HEALTH.

11. HAVE REGULAR DISCUSSION WITH HIS/HER TUTORS & TEACHERS.

12. GIVE HIM A REASONABLE INCENTIVE FOR TARGETTED RESULTS.

13. KEEP A CALM ATMOSPHERE IN THE HOUSE.

14. PARTIES AND FUNCTIONS IN THE HOUSE SHOULD BE AVOIDED AS FAR AS POSSIBLE.

15. BE AVAILABLE TO YOUR CHILD EVERYTIME AL LEAST ON PHONE.

16. ASK OTHER SIBLINGS TO TAKE BEST CARE OF EXAMINEE.

17. USE EMOTIONS OF CHILD TO PEP HIM UP. e.g. ASK YOUR CHILD TO SCORE CERTAIN PERCENTAGE OF MARKS AS A BITHDAY GIFT FOR YOU.

18. NEVER CRITICIZE HIM AS THE CRITICAL ASSESSMENT TIME IS OVER.


SIR/MADAM TODAYS WORLD IS VERY CHALLENGING FOR THE EXAMINEES. WE DIDINOT USED TO HAVE SO MANY DSTRACTIONS LIKE CEL PHONES, TV, CD, DVD, PARTIES, DJ, CRICKET etc. WE USED TO HAVE SUNDAY MOVIE & CHITRAHAR ON DOORDARSHAN. NOW YOU SEE WHO IS DOING MORE SACRIFICE. OBVIOUSLY THE TODAYS STUDENT. SO WE ALL SHOULD ENABLE HIM TO COPE UP WITH HIS MIND AND PUT ALL OUR EFFORT TO KEEP HIS MIND ON ONE TRACK i.e. STUDIES.

LEAD BY EXAMPLE : IF WE EXPECT A SACRIFICE FROM OUR CHILD WE SHOULD FOLLOW THE POLICY OF LEADING BY EXAMPLE. GO AND BE WITH YOUR CHILD FOR NEXT 90 DAYS, SUPPORT HIM, NURTURE HIM AND I DONOT THINK THAT THERE IS ANY CHILD IN THIS WORLD WHO WILL NOT RESPOND.

YOU ARE WELCOME TO POST YOUR EXPERIENCES.