MOTIVATION : A GURU MATRA FOR SUCCESS

SIR EDMUND HILLARY & TENZING NORGAY

THEY ACHIEVED THE UNACHIEVABLE BEFORE ANYBODY ELSE

READ FULL INTERVIEW OF SIR HILLARY A GREAT MOTIVATOR http://www.achievement.org/autodoc/page/hil0int-2



MOTIVATE YOUR CHILD

Examination put a lot of psychological pressure on the students. They get lot in the maze of questions and answers. There are some questions which they cannot understand. There are questions to which they cannot find answers. There are so many questions to which they know answers but cannot recall. They want to perform well but they have their own limitations. They get confused what to learn, what to leave. We expect them to come out on top. The peer’s pressures also make them feel sulking. They are confused and it leads them to a vicious circle of depression. The more they try to perform more they get depressed.

The only remedy for this problem is the preventive action. We the parents should act in such a manner that our child should not find himself marooned on the desert of depressive thoughts. The best method to prevent this stage is to motivate the child and lead him all the way through. All major wars and battles have been won with proper motivation & astute leadership.
Every child is a unique mix of abilities & problems. No motivational theory can suit the nature of two children. The best persons to provide motivation & leadership to a child are the parents. Here I enumerate some steps that can help you to motivate and lead your child.

1. Both parents should talk to their child for at least 15 minutes daily. The topic should be of child’s interest only. It can be studies, cricket, sports, movies and even girlfriends or boyfriends.
2. The parents should let the child talk in the conversation and should always express their moderate viewpoints on the subject of the talk.
3. In between the talk you should ask some questions to child regarding his studies, career etc. The questions can be
a. What are you planning to do tomorrow?
b. What is the score you are aiming to achieve?
c. What are your strong subjects?
d. In which subject you feel the problem?
e. What help he needs from you?
f. What are the difficult topics in a particular subject?
g. What does he do in his leisure time?

4. Three four rounds of these type of talks will rejuvenate your child. Once your child may hesitate to answer your questions. Do not react. Simply rephrase the questions on the next day. Make a bridge of talks with your child. Once the bridge is made you will automatically gain the confidence of your child.

5. Once the bond of confidence is created you start posing your simple queries to the child like
a. Your expectations from him.
b. Importance of this examination
c. Your aims for him
d. Rewards you have planned for him
e. Explain him the importance of studies with some live examples

6. At any stage you should not
a. Get angry with him
b. Discourage him
c. Criticize him

7. On the other hand your behavior should be
a. Encouraging
b. Positive
c. Analytical
d. Look for small small chunks of improvement

8. Proper & positive talk sessions will seed a passion of performing in the mind of the child. His mindset will be like a spaceship raring to conquer the universe. You have to only take care of earth command. Note that without your leadership child cannot give his best performance (When I talk about child I mean son/daughter irrespective of age). You should provide him proper direction and zero in his target. You yourself will be amazed to see that how smoothly your child will achieve the targets.

9. Before I sigh off I want you to keep in mind
a. Have faith in your child. Whatever he is today it’s just because of you.
b. Examination will come and go but any harm to child’s psycho can be permanent.
c. Your child needs you at every stage of his life.
d. Give only realistic targets to your child.
e. His basic flaws should be identified and you should find the ways & means to correct them
f. Any below expectation result in any examination is not end of road.
g. Be a true coach, motivator for your child

10. I know that if these steps are followed by parents with truth, honesty & integrity the parents will have full charge of their child’s emotions. They will never allow his emotions to be negative.

BEFORE I SIGN OFF I WISH BEST OF LUCK TO ALL PARENTS

“HAPPY PARENTING”

useful links

http://www.careerlauncher.com/futuremap/common/futuremap_resource/examination_stress.html

http://www.doctorndtv.com/doctorNDTV%20show/detailtopics.asp?id=11

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WAYS OF MEMORIZING

DIVIDE & LEARN : The method of dividing an item into small chunks of knowledge and remembering them is a commonly used technique of memorizing. This method is very common and also one of the oldest one. It is used to memorize long numbers and spellings of long & complicated words.
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PARENTS OF STUDENTS APPEARING IN CBSE EXAMINATIONS

SIR/MADAM

YOUR SON/DAUGHTER NEEDS YOU NOW.

TODAY I AM ALSO A PARENT OF CLASS 12th STUDENT. I HAVE MY MEMORIES OF CBSE EXAMINATIONS AND THE SUPPORT MY PARENTS GAVE ME IN THAT PERIOD. I OWE MY TOP RANKED SUCCESS TO THEM. I WANT TO SHARE THEM WITH YOU.

1. I ASKED STUDENTS TO BE HERMIT IN STUDY. THE PARENTS HAVE TO NURTURE THE HERMIT.

2. TALK TO YOU SON/DAUGHTER OFTEN.

3. TALK ABOUT HIS/HER PROBLEMS.

4. GIVE HIM/HER MORAL SUPPORT.

5. DONOT GIVE HIM/HER VERY HIGH TARGETS.

6. TAKE PROPER CARE OF HIS/HER DIET.

7. THE CHILD SHOULD NOT FEEL ALONE. SOMEONE SHOULD BE AT HOME EVERYTIME.

8. DO NOT ASK HIM TO OPEN THE DOOR, ANSWER A TELEPHONE CALL etc.

9. MONITOR HIS CELL PHONE TALKS.

10. KEEP REGULAR CHECK ON THIS HEALTH.

11. HAVE REGULAR DISCUSSION WITH HIS/HER TUTORS & TEACHERS.

12. GIVE HIM A REASONABLE INCENTIVE FOR TARGETTED RESULTS.

13. KEEP A CALM ATMOSPHERE IN THE HOUSE.

14. PARTIES AND FUNCTIONS IN THE HOUSE SHOULD BE AVOIDED AS FAR AS POSSIBLE.

15. BE AVAILABLE TO YOUR CHILD EVERYTIME AL LEAST ON PHONE.

16. ASK OTHER SIBLINGS TO TAKE BEST CARE OF EXAMINEE.

17. USE EMOTIONS OF CHILD TO PEP HIM UP. e.g. ASK YOUR CHILD TO SCORE CERTAIN PERCENTAGE OF MARKS AS A BITHDAY GIFT FOR YOU.

18. NEVER CRITICIZE HIM AS THE CRITICAL ASSESSMENT TIME IS OVER.


SIR/MADAM TODAYS WORLD IS VERY CHALLENGING FOR THE EXAMINEES. WE DIDINOT USED TO HAVE SO MANY DSTRACTIONS LIKE CEL PHONES, TV, CD, DVD, PARTIES, DJ, CRICKET etc. WE USED TO HAVE SUNDAY MOVIE & CHITRAHAR ON DOORDARSHAN. NOW YOU SEE WHO IS DOING MORE SACRIFICE. OBVIOUSLY THE TODAYS STUDENT. SO WE ALL SHOULD ENABLE HIM TO COPE UP WITH HIS MIND AND PUT ALL OUR EFFORT TO KEEP HIS MIND ON ONE TRACK i.e. STUDIES.

LEAD BY EXAMPLE : IF WE EXPECT A SACRIFICE FROM OUR CHILD WE SHOULD FOLLOW THE POLICY OF LEADING BY EXAMPLE. GO AND BE WITH YOUR CHILD FOR NEXT 90 DAYS, SUPPORT HIM, NURTURE HIM AND I DONOT THINK THAT THERE IS ANY CHILD IN THIS WORLD WHO WILL NOT RESPOND.

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STUDENTS : CBSE EXAMINATIONS TIPS

CBSE EXAMINATIONS ARE ROUND THE CORNER. THE STUDENTS MUST BE FEELING VERY NERVOUS AND WILL BE TOO MUCH WORRIED ABOUT THEIR PREPERATIONS.

GETTING GOOD MARKS IN CBSE IS VERY EASY. I HAVE DONE IT. YOU CAN DO IT.EVERYBODY CAN DO IT.

HERE IS A SMALL DOSE OF TIPS FOR STUDENTS

1. ALWAYS BE IN TOUCH WITH CBSE WEBSITE www.cbse.nic.n

2. USE NCERT BOOKS AS BIBLE FOR PREPERATIONS.

3. OTHER TEXTBOKS ARE ONLY FOR HELP.

4. A STUDENT CAN EASILY SCORE GOOD MARKS IF HE/SHE STICKS TO NCERT BOOKS.

5. EVALUATE YOUR PERFORMANCE BY APPEARING FOR MOCK TESTS (AT LEAST ONE exam daily).

6. STOP WATCHING TV. AN HOUR OF TV WATCHING WILL NOT REFRESH YOU BUT WILL TIRE YOUR EYES & NERVES.

7. TO CHANGE YOURSELF FROM MONOTONOUS STUDIES IN YOUR FREE TIME GO FOR A WALK OR PLAY SOME GAMES THAT REQUIRES PHYSICAL MOVEMENT.

8. IMPROVE YOUR ENGLISH AS YOU MAY NOT BE ABLE TO COMPREHEND A QUESTION OF A SUBJECT DUE TO WEAK ENGLISH.

9. TAKE AT LEAST 6 TO 7 HOURS OF SLEEP TO REFRESH YOURSELF.

10. BE A HERMIT IN STUDY : AVOID SOCIAL ENGAGEMENTS LIKE MARRIAGES & BIRTHDAYS UPTO THE EXAMNATIONS.

11. GO THROUGH THE PREVIOUS YEAR PAPERS SERIOUSLY.

12. HAVE A BALANCED DIET. DRINK A LOT OF WATER. AVOID OILY FOODS AS IT WILL MAKE YOU LETHARGIC.

13. AVOID GETTING ILL. ANY ILLNESS AT EXAM TIME WILL HAMPER YOUR PERFORMANCE.

14. FOCUS YOURSELF TOWARDS THE EXAM & EXAM ONLY.

15. LEARN ANSWERS BY WRITING.

16. DONOT BE DISHEARTENED ANYTIME. A SERIOUS AND HONEST EFFORT WILL ALWAYS BEAR GOOD FRUITS.

17. AVOID USE OF COMPUTER UNLESS IT IS VERY NECCESSARY.

18. KEEP AT LEAST 15 MINUTES FOR REMEMBERING ALMIGHTY.

19. LIST YOUR PROBLEM AREAS AND TAKE ANY AVAILABLE HELP TO SOLVE THEM. DO NOT FEEL SHY TO TAKE HELP FROM ANYBODY.

20. ALWAYS FEEL POSITIVE ABOUT YOURSELF.

FINALLY I SAY THAT CBSE EXAMINATIONS ARE NOT THE END. A NOT SO GOOD PERFORMANCE HERE DOESNOT MEAN THAT THE WORLD HAS ENDED FOR YOU. GOD HAS KEPT ENORMOUS GIFT FOR EVERY HUMAN BEING HE HAS CREATED. YOUR GIFTS ARE NOT FAR AWAY BUT YOU HAVE TO KEEP ON TRYING. SO MOTIVATE YOURSELF AND GO FOR IT WITH CONFIDENCE. TAKE IT LIKE ANOTHER EXAMINATION AND GIVE YOUR 100%.

BEST OF LUCK & BE IN TOUCH

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